1:1 coaching for women in transition

The problem you can name is rarely the one you came with.

Maybe you can explain it cleanly. Maybe all you have is a feeling that something is off. Either way, we start with the quieter question underneath. Who am I now, after all of this.

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before you have the words

Most women arrive without the words for it.

You cannot quite say what is wrong. Nothing is on fire. From the outside it looks fine, maybe even good. And still you are running hard, with the sense that this is not your life, or not anymore.

You might call it tired. Flat. Going through the motions. A life that fits everyone but you. None of those is the real sentence, and that is fine. The sentence usually does not exist yet.

So do not bring words. Bring the feeling that something is off. Finding the words is the work itself, not what you need before we start.

We begin where you cannot explain it. That tends to be the honest place.

An open sketchbook with hand-painted circles in soft colour, wooden tokens reading Resources and Passion beside it
what I hear

Wanting a fuller life is not a whim.

I hear it and I see it, usually before you have managed to say it out loud. What you come with is not a passing mood, and it is not ingratitude. It is a need for a life that has more of you in it. That need is real, and I treat it as real.

You may have spent a while talking yourself out of it. You have a good life. Other people have it harder. This is probably just a phase. I do not hear a phase. I hear someone whose life has grown smaller than she is, asking for room to breathe.

Nothing here needs fixing. You are not broken and you are not behind. You are a person who wants her life to fit again. That is enough to begin.

inside the work

Most of it is putting words to what you want.

A session is where the vague thing gets a shape. We draw out the vision, the one you have not let yourself look at straight on, and you say out loud what you want, and why. Sometimes the wanting sits further down, and the work is seeing, inside yourself, what you truly want underneath what you are supposed to want.

It does not have to be heavy. People assume that coaching about a hard stretch of life must be hard the whole way through. Often the lighter questions open more. What would you do with a free afternoon and nobody watching. What did you love before it became impractical.

My part is steady. I help you see where you are, plainly and without drama. We make where you want to be specific enough to walk toward. And I go with you, toward the courage to start, and toward the joy and satisfaction of a life that fits.

A collage made in a session, sea and a small tree with cut paper and a few words, the kind of image work we do together
why there is no program

I do not sell a fixed program.

I will not hand you a ten-step plan, because I have no idea where you will want to go after session two or three, and neither do you yet. That is the point.

You have spent enough of your life walking a path someone else laid out, one sensible step after another, none of them quite yours. I am not going to be one more person holding the string. We find your direction as we go, and it stays yours the whole time.

where to begin

You can start with one session, or begin the work.

Where you start depends on what you need. One door is for a decision. The other is for a return. Neither asks you to commit to a long process up front.

The Compass Session

For when there is one thing you have to decide, and you want to see it clearly now. A role, a relocation, a relationship, a yes or no you have carried too long. Ninety minutes on that one crossroads, with a short visual exercise beforehand. You leave with your own decision made, and a one-page map of what you saw, in your words. You can stop there. That is a real result.

350 AUD · 90 minutes, single session

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Ongoing coaching

For when you can feel it is bigger than one decision. Not whether to take the job, but who you are now and what you want your life to hold. We begin with a single session and find the shape from there. No package to sign up for, no steps I laid out in advance. Your direction stays yours.

250 AUD · 60 minutes per session

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Both online, in English or Polish.