Coach and facilitator for life and work transitions. Three countries, more than one version of myself, and the work that came out of all of it.
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I moved three times across continents. Each time as an adult, a mother, someone who thought she knew exactly who she was. And each time, my sense of who I was quietly came undone.
I know what it costs to leave parts of yourself behind. And I know what begins to return when you stop forcing yourself into what no longer fits. That is the lens I work through now.
When I started facilitating, I wore high heels to every workshop. I thought they made me taller and more professional. Now I sometimes stand in front of a group barefoot. I know where my strength comes from. That is what I help people find.
I help women return to what was always there. Not by fixing who they are. Not by becoming someone new.
These aren't steps. They overlap, double back, and rarely happen in this order. Alongside conversation, I work with collage, image and metaphor, not as decoration, but because they reach what words cannot yet hold.
Not the sensible version. Not what you have already explained to everyone else. We begin underneath that, with what is actually going on. That is usually where the real conversation starts.
Sometimes words are enough. Sometimes they are not. Alongside conversation I use collage, image and metaphor. Not as decoration. They let you notice what you would otherwise walk straight past.
What you inherited. What you agreed to without noticing. What you really think, under all of it. This is where the daring begins. Not loud. Not sudden. Curiosity first, then clarity.
A decision. A boundary. A conversation you have been avoiding. A next step that is yours. You will not leave with mine. You will leave with yours.
Fifteen years of coaching and facilitation across Australia, Asia Pacific and Europe, with roots in education and community work. Webinars for audiences of 1000+, including Cisco. The depth is held responsibly, with training in counselling psychology and art-based methods.
It's the one sentence I most want women to hear: give yourself permission to want the flow. Dare to flow.
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